You know those quiet, restless moments.

When the world is still, but your mind isn’t.
You’re staring into the fridge, not really hungry - or lying in the dark, wide awake, while everyone else seems to be sleeping through life.

And there it is again - that question that won’t leave you alone:

“Should I stay?”
“Should I walk away?”
“What if I regret this forever?”

It doesn’t shout. It lingers.
And somehow, it finds you in the spaces where you're most vulnerable - when you least expect it, and most need an answer.

When you’re not sure what to do next

Not because you haven’t done your homework - you’ve read the articles, talked to friends, googled it, stayed up late thinking it through a hundred times.

But some decisions aren’t about facts.
They live somewhere deeper.
A feeling in your chest.
That ache that says, something isn’t quite right.
Or that soft pull toward something you can’t yet explain - only feel.

It’s not about knowing more.
It’s about finding the courage to trust what you already know, deep down.

I’ve learned - often the hard way - that clarity doesn’t come when we’re spinning in stress or racing to keep up. It comes in those quieter, slower moments… the ones we rarely give ourselves. But let’s be honest - slowing down is hard. Life doesn’t wait. People expect answers. And inside, the pressure builds.

That’s when I knew I needed something different.
Not advice. Not urgency. Just… a soft place to land.

That’s how DecisionWise was born.
It began, really, as a gift to myself.
I was in one of those foggy stretches - not dramatic, just quietly exhausting. The kind where everything feels too much and not enough at the same time.

And I remember thinking: What if there were a space - calm, clear, kind - where I could meet myself gently and begin to make sense of it all?
Not to fix everything. Just to breathe, reflect, and listen in.

That wish became the seed. Tom helped me build it.
And now it’s here - for you too.

Not a to-do list.
Not a motivational push.
Just a gentle guide to help me think.

With Tom’s tech brilliance and my love of questions (and overthinking), DecisionWise was born.

You begin with just one yes-or-no question - the one circling in your mind like a little bird.

“Should I move?”
“Should I say yes to this?”
“Should I call them - or finally let go?”

The app won’t give you an answer.
But it will walk you through a few steps to meet yourself:

• Thoughtful, quiet questions

• A place to list your hopes and worries

• A gentle look at what might happen - either way

And then it steps aside.

Because in the end, no app has your wisdom.
But sometimes, the right questions can help you hear it.

If you’re standing at a crossroads - big or small - and want a soft, grounded space to reflect, you can try the new version of DecisionWise here (it’s free):

🔗 https://decisionwise.worldswithin.life

And if you do…
I’d love to know:

What was the first question you brought with you?